New Executive Directors: How to Make Sense of the First Three Years, and Find Your Way Through Them
A free 1-hour live training for nonprofit Executive Directors
📅 Thursday, October 1, 2026 | 12:00 PM ET
You got the job. Everyone congratulated you. And somewhere in the first few months, you discovered what you really inherited: undocumented processes, board expectations no one articulated, systems held together by one person, and a two-hour orientation that was supposed to prepare you to lead an entire organization.
Meanwhile, everyone is looking to you for answers — the staff, the board, and funders. You're carrying more than anyone around you seems to realize. And at the end of most days, you honestly can't tell if you're doing a good job, because no one hands you a scoreboard for this role.
So you did what capable leaders do: you worked harder. Longer days. More weekends. Saying yes to everything because it all feels urgent. But working harder hasn't quieted the question that follows you home: am I focusing on the right things? Or maybe you’ve asked yourself, “What am I missing?” or “I don’t know what I don’t know”.
Here's the truth: your first three years follow a predictable journey through three overlapping stages: Orientation, Analysis, and Strategic Action. And what deserves your attention depends entirely on where you are in it. Most new EDs are doing the right work at the wrong stage, and the overwhelm you're feeling is a sign that no one gave you a map for the journey.
In this training, I'll walk you through the New Executive Director Leadership Journey: what each stage is for, how it shows up in your day-to-day life, how to recognize which one you're in, and what to prioritize now. Then we'll open it up for live Q&A, so bring your real situation and questions about your board, team, and inherited systems.
In this training, you will learn:
Why the first three years are harder than anyone warned you about, and why capable, high-performing leaders so often feel lost in a role they are qualified for.
The three stages of the New Executive Director Leadership Journey — Orientation, Analysis, and Strategic Action, what each stage is for, and how they overlap.
How to recognize which stage you're in right now, including why most EDs are in different stages in different areas of the organization, and why your time in the role doesn't determine your stage.
Where new EDs most often get stuck at each stage, and how to avoid losing months to the wrong priorities.
How to sort what to focus on, what requires action now, what needs more observation, and what can wait.
Who this is for
Nonprofit Executive Directors in their first three years, especially leaders who are competent, capable, and still finding the role harder than anyone told them it would be.
What to bring
Yourself and your questions.
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Thursday, October 1, 2026 | 12:00 PM ET — live on Zoom, free to attend. Registration takes 30 seconds, and your join link arrives by email immediately.
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About Trenia
Trenia Parham is a leadership coach, workplace culture consultant, social worker and speaker. With 25 years of experience in nonprofits and the public sector, she helps mission-driven organizations and leaders create more human, effective, and sustainable ways to lead and work.
She is the creator of the New Executive Director Leadership Journey, a framework that maps how leadership develops across an ED's first three years, and How to Keep Great People, a playbook for organizations that want to build loyalty and longevity among staff and teams. Trenia has spoken for organizations including Fox, New Jersey Center for Nonprofits, National Urban Fellows, and the Bryn Mawr Alumni Association.
Outside of her professional work, she is committed to practical spirituality, personal growth, and helping leaders live and lead without losing themselves in the process.